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Teaching Kids Leadership
- Problem Solving Checklist
- Adjusting Leader Style to Personality Types
- Plan Do Check Adjust (PDCA)
- So what can adults do to help kids learn leadership?
- A rose by any other name is still a rose
- Natural Consequences Versus Coaching and Correcting
- Help Kids Develop Improved People Skills
- Five Year Old Laments 'My sister is making me mad!'
- Socratic question-based discussions
- Have the child report on what they saw that day'
- Great question for the adults trying to teach kids
- Teach Kids How to Deal With Stress Well
- Teach Kids the Pareto Principle, the 80/20 Principle
- Maslov Pyramid Perspective on Kids
- Reading Partner Questions
- Watching Examples and Discussing with the Youth to Help Them Process What They Saw
- Trust is crucial to leadership
- Teenage Decision Making
- Character Development - What is character anyway so kids can develop it?
- Defining Leadership
- Blog Vocabulary Not at Child's Level
- Encouragement for the Single Parent
- Giving children opportunities to lead
- Habits of Mind from Project 2061
- Horizontal Leadership-There are more chances to practice this type for children
- How young is too young to start?
- Introduction for those new to leadership
- Producer or Consumer of Leadership?
- Scouts provides opportunities to practice leadership
- Set High Expectations
- So why should anyone take on the challenge of leadership?
- The Beginning of My Journey of Discovery
- The Paradox of Service to Others
- The Well Trained Mind
- Vertical Leadership is not where kids typically start out
- What about cultural differences?
- What can children pick up about leadership anyway?
- What is age-appropriate for teaching kids leadership?
- What is the Payoff for the Hard Work of Leadership?
- What lessons did I learn trying to develop leadership in my own children (so far)?
- Who cares about leadership?
- Character Development - How do we grow strong character and help children do the same?
- How do we measure our current character?
- Character Development - Fairness as a Character Trait
- Children Can Learn Leadership
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Blog
- Gallons of Ink
- Got Yubikey Setup
- Experimenting with Ink Containers for Travel
- Cigar Case Pen Protector
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- MacOS Sandboxing can Impact Reuse
- Python Programming
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- How to Make Family History Website and Book with Same Data
- Further Adventures Making DIY Fountain Pen Ink
- Cursive Writing
- Have Pens. Now I Need Paper
- eBook Conversion
- My Copper Metal Pen Arrived
- Do It Yourself (DIY) Mixing Fountain Pen Inks
- Microlearning
- Emergency Preparedness with Mobile Devices
- The Nature of Lisp and Writing with Pollen
- Fountain Pens
- Learning Simulation
- I Wish Familysearch.org Exported Data
- Raising Chickens in Florida
- Climbing the Learning Curve
- Gardening
- Dont Give Up
- The One Thing
- Opportunity Management
- Quote About Questions
- Mindset - Be sure you encourage kids toward 'growth' not 'born talent' with its fixed limits
- Demonstrating Respect and Choice versus Force and Coercion
- Behavioral Styles
- Applying Precepts
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Family History
- Author's Contact Information
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- Family History Frontmatter
- Family History Introduction
- Historical Timeline
- Note to Future Family History Maintainers
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Our Lanham Paternal Lineage
- Josias Lanham Family 1628 (Not our direct line)
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Curtis Harden Lanham Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Hiram D. Lanham Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the John Lanham (1661) Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Jonathon Lanham (1630) Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the O.S. Lanham Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Robert Lanham (1560) Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Sylvester Lanham Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the T.B. Lanham Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Thomas Lanham (1701) Generation
- Other Siblings and Cousins in the Thomas Lanham (1757) Generation
- Our Lanham Line - The Paternal Lineage
- The Amanda Francis Lanham Family
- The Andrew Shepherd Family
- The Archibald Lanham Family 1751
- The Benjamin Garfield Lanham Family
- The Burress and Ida Roberts Family
- The Calvin Powell Dorsey Family
- The Charles Selby Family 1762
- The Clifford Wayne Lanham Family
- The Curtis Harden Lanham Family 1813
- The Curtis Harden Lanham Family 1875
- The David Lanham Family 1595
- The Edward James Holt Family
- The Edward Lanham Family 1685
- The Elmer Harn Family
- The Emmitt F. Welborn Family
- The Eugene WILLIAMS Family 1855
- The Frank Robinson Family
- The Gideon Wilburn Ashley Family
- The Hiram Demarcus Lanham Family 1845
- The Issac Elam Family 1803
- The Jacob Shepherd Family 1812
- The James Bedford Ray Family (Cliffie M. Lanham)
- The James Kennedy Family
- The Jasper Shipman Family
- The Jeremiah Lanham Family 1755
- The Jesse Elam Family 1782
- The Joe A. Madden Family
- The John Hendrickson Corely Family
- The John James Roberts Family
- The John Lanham Family 1661
- The John Lanham Family 1690
- The John Nicholas Jacks Family 1740
- The John T. Scott Family
- The Jonathan Hammer Cook Family
- The Jonathan Lanham Family 1630
- The Josias Lanham Family 1590
- The Oran Stroud Lanham Family 1916
- The R.J. Craighead Family 1907
- The R.J. Craighead Family 1907
- The Richard Lanham Family 1697
- The Robert Lanham Family 1584
- The Roger Lanham Family 1560
- The Stephen Lanham (1726) Family
- The Stephen Lanham Family 1760
- The Stephen Lanham Family 1784
- The Sylvester Lanham Family 1790
- The Thomas Benton Lanham Family
- The Thomas Berry (T. B.) Lanham Family 1882
- The Thomas Lanham (1757) Family
- The Thomas Lanham Family 1700 or 1701
- The Thomas Sisk Family 1858
- The W.T. Lanham Family 1850
- The Walter Lee Ray Family
- The William Curtis Lanham Family
- The William Lanham Family 1699
- The Willie Green Scott Family
- The Wortha Leon Lanham Family 1907
- Reference Materials
- Rockwall Cemetery Listing, Rockwall, Texas
- The 2006 Journey to Find Thomas Lanham's Grave Site
- The Lanham family of Wortham (Research Details)
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The Maternal Side of Our Family Lines
- The A. Sion Wheeles Family
- The Aaron Jones Family
- The Abednego Chandler Family 1752
- The Adrian Alford Colbath Family 1893
- The Alex L. Baker Family
- The Alford Nolen Jones Family
- The Andrew Jackson (Jack) Kitchens Family
- The Beall Family
- The Benjamin Colbath Family 1758
- The Chisel True Baker Family
- The Daniel Horne Blackmore Family
- The David Amick Family
- The George Henry Slattery Family
- The J. E. Sisk Family
- The James McHale Family
- The John C. Colbath Family 1820
- The John Chandler Family
- The John Jones Family
- The John Lacey Family (bef 1778)
- The John Patrick Carmody Family
- The John Sappington Family 1723
- The Larkin (Lark) Patrick Williams Family
- The Lazarus Rufus Jones Family
- The Leah Unknown Family
- The Luther Jason Head Family
- The Luther Troup Baker Family
- The Mason Jones Family
- The Michael Gonzales Family
- The Michael Yost Family
- The Patrick Joseph Merrick Family
- The Patrick Merrick Family 1883
- The Patrick Williams Family
- The Perry Rufus Jones Family
- The Peter Logan Yost Family
- The Quirke Family
- The Richard Head Family 1802
- The Richard Merrick Family
- The Robert Chandler Family 1687
- The Stephen Grey Family 1894
- The Thomas Edmonson Head Family
- The Thomas Lacey Family 1808
- The Thomas Winthrop Colbath Family 1851
- The William Estes Family 1785
- The William J. Roberts Family
- The William Milton Jacks Family
- The William Patrick Williams Family
- The Willis Ashley Family
- The Winthrop Colbath Family 1786
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- Frequently Asked Questions
Goal Setting
Why do leaders need to set self-development goals?
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Avoid wasting time and energy
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Be clear on your roles and responsibilities.[1]
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Each role has different responsibilities, skill and knowledge requirements, and expectations.[1]
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For each role, pick the two most important responsibilities in that role.[1]
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Consider the needs of the organization and how well you are aligned so far.
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Self-development activities aim at learning new knowledge, gaining or enhancing skills, changing attitudes or values, or a combination of these.[1]
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Get clear on your strengths and developmental needs.
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Establish self-development goals.[1]
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There is no set formula in choosing personal development goals.[1]
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Personal strengths
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Personal development needs
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Family roles
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Current or future roles
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Personal interests
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Plan agile epics or milestones to achieve the goals and to help you monitor progress.[1]
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Break big tasks into smaller, manageable tasks.[1]
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Start with easy steps then gradually build to steps that are more difficult.[1]
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After establishing self-development goals, create one or more milestones to get started and gauge progress.[1]
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Use an individual development plan to document goals and milestones.[1]
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Use each milestone to stretch you.[1]
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Milestones can be a mix of short-term or long-term—whatever personally works and encourages progress.[1]
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Be specific and measurable [1]
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They need to state what to accomplish so you can tell if you have met the milestone or not.[1]
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Be meaningful [1]
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They should help achieve self-development goals.[1]
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Provide a challenge [1]
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Have a time limit [1]
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Time limits provide motivation and will help gauge success.[1]
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Build in some flexibility to overcome obstacles or revise milestones if necessary.[1]
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Every milestone requires at least a minimal amount of planning.[1] After setting the first milestone, create a plan to achieve it.[1] A plan can increase chances of success by:
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Identifying all required actions.[1]
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Identifying the resources needed to meet the milestones.[1]
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Establishing time estimates and deadlines that help track progress.[1]
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Dividing large tasks into smaller parts to reduce being overwhelmed.[1]
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Identifying possible obstacles and the actions and resources needed to overcome them.[1]
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Making the best use of personal time and other resources.[1]
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Make milestones to stretch enough to provide a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction after achieving them.[1]
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Decide on the reward before beginning.
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Decide to learn.
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Self-development requires learning. [1] You will need:
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Motivation and persistence.[1]
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Self-development may require hard work over a long period, especially if the goal is to become an expert in an area or undergo significant personal growth.[1]
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It takes motivation and effort to keep self-development efforts alive.[1]
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Genuine motivation provides lasting energy because it is the internalization of goals and the desire to achieve them.[1]
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Think about:
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Plan learning activities that concretely connect to the real world and that satisfy your curiosity.[1]
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Learning opportunities.[1]
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Effective learning methods.[1]
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Reflection.
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Learning through focused reading and analysis.[1]
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Maintain momentum.
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Do not start a learning task then put it down for too long.[1]
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Work on the task a little every day until it is accomplished.[1]
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Get support from family members, friends, or supervisors for encouragement, accountability, recognizing accomplishments, and as a source of feedback.[1]
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Observe others who have successfully achieved their goals. Learn and model what they do.[1]
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Review what has been learned so far.[1]
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Learn from mistakes and do not repeat them.[1]
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Unplanned learning happens when something unexpectedly captures your attention.[1] Interest in the topic causes you to pay attention and learn.[1] Attune your mind to draw attention to information related to self-development aims by thinking about developmental aims in detail—what you are trying to accomplish and why you want to accomplish these things.[1] Review what you know and what you need to learn.[1] Remind yourself of key terms and ideas related to the subject as well as who the experts in the field are.[1]
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Assess progress.[1]
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Make course corrections.[1]
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Internal obstacles to self-development include procrastination, apathy, and pride.[1]
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Some come to realize their milestones are too ambitious, complex, unclear, or difficult.[1]
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Others hesitate because of the effort or discomfort that the work requires or lack the motivation to start.[1]
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A poor attitude also can interfere with learning and make it difficult to understand and remember information.[1]
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For example, thinking that a subject is hard or disliking it can interfere with an ability to learn anything related to that subject.[1]
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Other attitudes, such as closed mindedness, inflexibility, or rigid adherence to beliefs and assumptions, can interfere with learning.[1]
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To combat poor attitudes, identify a productive replacement.[1]
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Practice thinking and behaving with a positive attitude until it feels natural and becomes a habit.[1]
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Hold a retrospective or lessons learned session with yourself.
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What happened and what were the consequences?[1]
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How were my leader actions supposed to influence the situation?[1]
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What were the direct results or consequences of my leader actions?[1]
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How did my actions benefit or hinder mission accomplishment?[1]
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How should I change my leader actions for better results next time?[1]
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What did I learn?[1]
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